Dear Birthmom
Dear Birthmom
Dear Expectant Mother,
Thank you for taking the time to read our profile. We can’t begin to imagine what you are going through or the emotions you are feeling. And we are profoundly grateful that you are considering us as a family for your baby. They will be raised in a house full of delight and joy, and they will be the joy and delight of every day.
We want to assure you that your baby will be surrounded by love and opportunity. We are so excited to hold and nurture them, read them stories, play with them, and help them discover and explore their world. We will offer them adventures and travel, good food, and the support to pursue their gifts and talents. We will teach them the value of education and give them the opportunity to go to college.
We want to offer the experiences we enjoyed as kids, from camping to spending time with grandparents, playing in the ocean, or getting messy in the kitchen. We’re excited to discover new things to enjoy together as a family. We will value the culture your baby comes from and will include that culture in our life as a family. We promise to be there through the hard times as well as the good and to love them with all we are.
Thank you for taking the time to read our profile. We can’t begin to imagine what you are going through or the emotions you are feeling. And we are profoundly grateful that you are considering us as a family for your baby. They will be raised in a house full of delight and joy, and they will be the joy and delight of every day.
We want to assure you that your baby will be surrounded by love and opportunity. We are so excited to hold and nurture them, read them stories, play with them, and help them discover and explore their world. We will offer them adventures and travel, good food, and the support to pursue their gifts and talents. We will teach them the value of education and give them the opportunity to go to college.
We want to offer the experiences we enjoyed as kids, from camping to spending time with grandparents, playing in the ocean, or getting messy in the kitchen. We’re excited to discover new things to enjoy together as a family. We will value the culture your baby comes from and will include that culture in our life as a family. We promise to be there through the hard times as well as the good and to love them with all we are.
Our Story
Hi there! We are Topher and Rose, Colorado kids who moved back home to be closer to family. We met while partner dancing, fell in love, and married six months later. After eleven years, we are even more in love and ready to grow our family. Rose is a preschool teacher and loves helping her kiddos develop. She enjoys gardening, sewing baby quilts, and snuggling our kitties. She is funny, kind, and the sweetest person Topher has ever known. Topher works for a local coffee company and manages one of their retail locations. He loves trail running, reading science fiction, and writing poetry. He is full of boundless enthusiasm and kindness. Both of us are passionate about our work and the impact it has on the communities we serve. We still love dancing together. We spend much of our time with both sides of our families, cooking, eating, and celebrating life.
Our Extended Family
We both come from very tight-knit families, and family is still very important to us. Our parents and all but one of our sisters (Topher has two sisters, and Rose has three) live nearby, and we get together all the time. We often celebrate together, from birthday dinners and Christmas mornings to Chinese New Year and New Year’s Day gumbo. We go on family camping trips and every few years a big family trip, most recently to Hawaii. We have weekly movie nights and help with each other's gardens or big projects. We often get together just for a meal at each other’s homes, to make a batch of cookies, or to watch a football game with homemade popcorn.
We both grew up with lots of family nearby and have great memories of overnights with grandparents, sitting with an aunt or uncle at dinner, and playing games with cousins. We look forward to being able to offer that same sense of love and family to a child. A child in our home will know they have so many people who love them.
We both grew up with lots of family nearby and have great memories of overnights with grandparents, sitting with an aunt or uncle at dinner, and playing games with cousins. We look forward to being able to offer that same sense of love and family to a child. A child in our home will know they have so many people who love them.
Our Home
We live in a beautiful neighborhood in Colorado with lots of old trees and friendly neighbors. Our house has four bedrooms, two bathrooms, and a big backyard with an apple tree, a pear tree, and lots of flowers. We also have snuggly cats. We are walking distance from an elementary school, a park, a swimming pool, a library, and lots of open space. We are also a short drive to a metropolitan city with major league sports teams, museums, and live music. We are close to beautiful mountain hikes and a ski area!
Our Journey to Adoption
We are so excited to have the opportunity to adopt! Adoption has always been a part of Rose’s family; she has two younger sisters who were adopted and has always felt so lucky to have them as sisters. Topher has also been touched by adoption as he was adopted by his grandfather, which brought a lot of stability and joy to them both. We don’t care about race or gender; we’re just so excited about those tiny toes!
Fun Facts
About Topher
Education
Master of Fine Arts, Creative Writing
Favorite Hobby
Writing poetry, dancing with Rose, trail running
Favorite Sport
Football
Favorite Music Group
La Doña, John Lee Hooker, Robyn
Favorite TV Show
Stargate SG-1, Steven Universe
Favorite Subject in School
Poetry
Favorite Tradition
Gathering with family
About Rose
Education
Bachelor of Arts
Favorite Hobby
Quilting, gardening, reading, partner dance
Favorite Sport
Football
Favorite Music Group
Rosalía, Chapelle Roan, Qveen Herby
Favorite TV Show
Firefly, Elementary
Favorite Subject in School
Art
Favorite Tradition
Traveling